Ending an affair: how to break up with a psychopath and live to tell about it
When you end an affair with a psychopath, there are many things to consider. They usually have a great deal of experience getting under your skin and causing great pain in the process of revenge or trying to get you back. Read this article for some tips on how to end an affair with a psychopath without being tortured to death or having to leave the country.
One of the problems with dating a psychopath is that if they’ve had minimal training, they already have all kinds of information about you and potentially your house keys, blood samples, and whatever else you can imagine.
Before separating, you should recover as much of your personal belongings as possible, without raising suspicions. This may take a few weeks, but it must be done the right way. Take your time and get as much of your belongings out as possible. Get rid of anything incriminating as well if possible. If you still have sex with them, make sure you use protection twice, no matter what. This is not the time to deal with a pregnancy.
You also want to arrange to get a new cell phone if possible, with a new number, change all your passwords on all your accounts, and change your email if possible. If it is possible to block your numbers on your home and work phones, be sure to do so. You need to cut off as many lines of communication as possible. Try to time this to happen on the day of the breakout or as close as possible. Make whatever excuses you have, but make sure you do these things.
You should also consider taking a ‘family vacation’ starting right after your breakup. If you are on vacation, you can ask a trusted friend to make sure to delete mail, messages scribbled in blood on the walls, etc., which could alert your spouse.
There are two types of places you can break up with them: public or private. I highly recommend a private place. You do not want them to make an important scene, although witnesses would make the task of obtaining a restraining order much easier, the fact is that bullies do not obey restraining orders, so it is best if you do it in private.
On the fateful day, you absolutely must make sure to make it completely clear to them that you are breaking up with them. Do not walk in words, do not be subtle. Psychopaths don’t understand the subtle; They understand sniper rifles, surveillance gear, and Molotov cocktails. You have to be as direct as possible.
Whatever you do, don’t tell them that you never felt anything for them or that you will always love them. The first will really infuriate them, and the second will leave the door open in your mind for possible reconciliation. Both are discouraged and can cause personal injury or at least significant psychological torment.
You have to be frank, once again, and you have to get out of there as quickly as possible. The longer you stay, the more likely you are to face physical injury or give in to fear and decide not to break up. Do the deed and get out of there as fast as you can. Tell them your parents had an accident or something, whatever, get out of there.
The hard part is what comes next. With a bit of luck, you were able to change your numbers, etc. The problem now is that you will face hateful messages, phone calls and relentless messages, and your stalker will appear in the strangest places. You can’t recognize them, you just have to get through this part.
If fate is with you, you can weather the storm and they will move on to someone else, but chances are, if your spouse hasn’t found out yet, he or she will do so during this period. If they do, explain things and expect sympathy. If not, then you are incredibly lucky and should probably play the lottery every day during this period.
In any case, with all the precautions taken, there is nothing left to do but make sure you go to church regularly, pray a lot, and try to keep your mind off overwhelming fear as much as possible. Once the first month or two passes, the rest should be easy, so relax and focus on making as many positive changes in your marriage as possible, and appreciate your spouse that much more, as they are obviously normal and divine of anybody. way. comparison.
Ending an affair with a psychopath is one of the scariest things you’ll have to go through, but it will pale in comparison to the pain of losing the most important relationship of your life – your marriage. Make sure you keep things in perspective and remember what is most important, and you will get it right.
