Why dating an older woman is so attractive – I was seduced by an older woman – It was fabulous

Why date an older woman?

I was seduced by a 42 year old horny mother and wife when I was an 18 year old insurance salesman. Read my explicit and unrestricted true story. The links to my true sexual confession are at the end of this article.

Cougar dating is now in the public arena. Recently, an older woman dating a younger guy was taboo, but it has always been accepted for an older man to date, court, and marry a younger woman.

Sure, we tease and joke about the older man having 1) a nice personality, 2) a big bank balance, 3) a big penis, or 4) about to die, to justify why such a young woman wants to hang out with an old old man. But in the end, an older man with a younger woman is quite socially acceptable.

mature dating | Emotions of dating a cougar

One major difference between cougar dating and a younger woman dating an older man is the issue of commitment. In many cases, the older man will eventually marry his young girlfriend and possibly start a family.

While cougar dating is now quite common and there are plenty of cougar singles looking for younger men, it’s still a bit of fun for both the older woman and the younger guy! The benefits of dating a cougar are usually limited to having fun in and out of the bedroom.

dating older girls | Who is a cougar?

Cougar singles tend to be financially stable, fit, healthy, and mostly attractive divorcees. They are generally confident, self-assured, and sexually aggressive, which is extremely attractive to many young people, including me.

Cougar dating turns on most young men, called ‘cubs’ because the older woman is not looking for a long-term relationship. Sometimes it happens when a cub and a cougar get into a serious relationship, but mostly it’s a mutually beneficial short-term affair.

There are many benefits of dating a cougar for the guy, but there are also many positive points for single cougars. She can really be herself and enjoy the sexual freedom that she missed out on when she was younger. She can rule out conforming to public perception and be the woman she wants to be. She started a family and now it’s ‘hers’ time to have fun with her. She is flattered to be wanted by a young, virile, horny, passionate, and well-endowed man (I don’t want to brag, but there he is), who is fun to be around and wants to be with. Disclaimer: I asked three cougars I dated and they all said the same thing.

dating an older baby | What’s for the pup?

For the cub, cougar dating offers a great way to learn and hone skills in dealing with women in general and puts you in a great position for a fulfilling relationship in the future. The pup will learn to please a female sexually and to respect and honor her needs and desires. He will be a better man!

… And the cougar?

For the mature woman who doesn’t want to settle down yet, cougar dating is the perfect way to seek male companionship. She can enjoy the puppy’s company and move on when the relationship is over. Both the cub and the cougar have had a fun and rewarding time with each other.

dating a cougar | final thoughts

A word of caution is worth remembering when dating cougars. It is important to note that both the cub and the puma are human. When single cougars and cubs have fun and spend time together, chances are high that a strong bond will form. Good sex, good company, good laughs, good communication all lead to an emotional connection and maybe even love.

If you’re both okay with that, great! But always be clear when cougar dating to communicate where you expect the relationship to go.