For Women – 7 Ways to Make Sex in Marriage Fun – Rekindle the passion in your marriage again!

In today’s busy world, we find ourselves with little time to do what we need to do and even less time for the things we enjoy. No wonder many married couples have boring sex lives! We all know how important intimacy is to a marriage; therefore, you must make time for your love life. If you feel that the sex in your marriage has become boring, then there is no reason why you cannot bring a spark to re-ignite the fire for passionate lovemaking.

It’s a myth that most men are easy to please in bed! Certain things turn men on and others turn them off in the same way women do. If you’re trying to heat things up in the bedroom, you need to find some ways to get creative for your man.

If the same thing that used to turn him on doesn’t do much for him anymore; then he tries some of these seductive techniques. Our guess is that he’ll be turned on by more than one of these and you can keep things interesting by surprising him with some of these tips:

1. Lose your inhibitions. Yes, we all get older and our bodies aren’t what they used to be, but you are your own worst critic when it comes to your body. You will find that if you feel confident in bed and don’t worry about cellulite on your butt, your man will be excited. When he sees you walk away from him, he may not understand that it’s you trying to hide your imperfections; he may think that you are not willing to give yourself to him. Try a lovemaking session while imagining yourself as a 22-year-old bikini model. Imagine you have a body to die for. This extra confidence will let your man know that you want to be intimate and when he knows that you want him, you will be surprised at what he will do for you!

2. Reduce your stress level before bed. If your man has a stressful job or just a tough day, that stress can not only be bad for him, but for his love life as well. Helping him through his distress when he gets home will ensure that he can relax and enjoy his time with you instead of worrying about what happened at the office. Play soft music and light a few candles in the house after dinner. He continues to distress him by running him a hot bath with some scented candles that continue to make him feel relaxed and happy to be home. Let him relax on his own for a bit, then surprise him by joining him in the tub.

3. Give that man a massage! Get some massage oils and offer your man a massage. Begin with a tension-relieving back massage; this will ensure that you are relaxed and carefree. When you’re done massaging his back, move on to his thighs. Tease him a little by getting closer to his pleasure zone, but not too close. Have her lie on her back while you massage the front of her thighs and legs. Get a little closer to his penis and start kissing it around his chest and work your way down. In no time, you should be in for an intense lovemaking session.

4. Surprise him with sexy lingerie. Get yourself some new sexy lingerie and dress it up at bedtime. It doesn’t have to be too revealing, but it should be sexy. To add to the effect, why not add a costume wig? Your man could really be turned on by long blonde hair and sexy heels. If this is out of character for you, then he will really surprise him and give him the green light to try something different with you. Let yourself give in to some of his sexual desires, nothing could please him more.

5. Put on a sexy movie. You can go for X-rated movies, but if you don’t feel comfortable renting or buying porn, go watch movies with some serious lovemaking scenes. Your man will be turned on and you will be ready for him.

6. Introduce some sex toys. With the recent trend in women’s sex toy parties, you don’t have to look far to find a toy or some oils that you both feel comfortable with. It doesn’t have to be anything crazy, but adding some interest to your lovemaking session can be really exciting. Don’t be afraid to try something new with your spouse. You both might enjoy it a lot!

7. Let him know that you like him too. Try the direct approach and just let him know you’re ready to have some sex. Being direct with your spouse can really make them sexually aroused. Tell him what you are going to do to him and take control of the love session. He will be surprised and will probably follow your orders.

If you are not comfortable with any of the advice we gave you here, then get creative and come up with some things that might turn your man on. Set aside time for lovemaking and intimacy in your marriage and you will notice that your relationship will be better thanks to it.